Should Men Always Pay For The First Date? | Who Pays On 1st Dates The Man Or Woman?

Should Men Always Pay For The First Date? | Who Pays On 1st Dates The Man Or Woman?



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What do you think? Should men always pay on the first date?

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Video Summary:
2:13 – Always Pay For The First Date
2:34 – If You Ask For The Date You Pay For The Date
3:24 – Keep It Playful
FAQ’s
4:15 – I Paid…What am I entitled to?
4:35 – What if I’m low on funds?
5:00 – Do I need to carry cash?
5:19 – What if she never pays for anything?
5:59 to end – What women say about the topic

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31 thoughts on “Should Men Always Pay For The First Date? | Who Pays On 1st Dates The Man Or Woman?

  1. What do you think? Should men always pay on the first date?

    http://www.realmenrealstyle.com/dinner-date-etiquette/ – Click here to read the article – Should Men Always Pay?

    Video Summary:
    2:13 – Always Pay For The First Date
    2:34 – If You Ask For The Date You Pay For The Date
    3:24 – Keep It Playful
    FAQ's
    4:15 – I Paid…What am i entitled to?
    4:35 – What if I'm low on funds?
    5:00 – Do I need to carry cash?
    5:19 – What if she never pays for anything?
    5:59 to end – What women say about the topic

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  2. What is a first date these days, because if you are meeting on the first date after talking on any dating site. It is not a date, it is the first time meeting someone at all.

  3. If a guy asks me out and then expects me to pay half or the tip, I will, but I will not see him again. It just sends the wrong signal, it's not a turn on….I really hope he doesn't expect anything sexual either if I have to pay the date at all… LOL But he shouldn't expect it anyway!!! So there! Now if we start a relationship and the dating process is over, I can see blending fiances. I can also understand if the woman has a lot of money and the guy doesn't and they still want to see each other, then it's ok for women to pay for some of the dates if they go out a lot. Just my opinion.

  4. I feel bad for the guys. Guys do so much for us and still romance seems to focus on us while guys have to do it all: approach us, ask us out, pursue us, court and romance us, pay for everything, propose, save like 3 months of their salary to buy us a ring, talk to both families, etc. And all we do is show up to the date? Thats cold haha! I might get weird looks from friends but I do those things for the guy I am seeing just like he does for me.

  5. I am only 17 years old and I always pay for the first date with any girl no matter who. ALWAYS pay for the first date guys…

  6. I can't afford a girlfriend. Because of this, I can never have a girlfriend, because they expect a big meal out, or something with effort. I can't fund a big fancy meal, therefore I don't find love. Awesome.

  7. "I just paid for the date, what am I entitled to?" Her being a decent human being. You'd be surprised how often even just expecting this is asking too much. Don't forget gentlemen, *YOU* are the prize and bring almost all the chips to the table. Never settle for a woman who treats you otherwise. Yet, more importantly, don't treat yourself that way.

  8. I believe that women should atleast offer to pay althought i am going to decline that offer, its the thought that counts. It makes me feel loved in a way lmfao

  9. Man should always pay period.
    If the woman asked you out, she can pay cuz she has no respect for herself and is probably unattractive.
    Women are the prize, you only have to check a male vs a females online (of equal attractive levels) dms to show you that we're always chased after and you're not.

  10. this if probably different depending on background, a latino man would feel offended if a women even offer to pay 50/50, now if you are in a more serious relationship, then things change… I have a date tonight with an american guy, so I would offer to pay my half!

  11. I do believe in rule #2, I don't believe a guy paying equates to being a gentlemen. There's a large portion of women who seek free meals, drinks, trips, and other goodies. It's hard to vet these women before the date. So men must be very selective of the location of the date. A guy can pay all day and still be a douche. How it starts is generally the direction where the relationship will end. A woman who never offers anything as small as the tip in my opinion is just as bad as guy who asks and whines about paying.

  12. Women say men pay
    Feminists say men pay for everything even her stuff
    Mra say 50/50
    Men say eh I’ll pay even though you ate hmm $1286 worth of food

  13. I have "always" been the one to pay !
    dates – sex and now to have a child of my own loins
    so pathetic , having to pay a woman to bare me my child : (
    women don't want to do anything with me of their own free will – I have to pay them
    has been that way all my adult life – why ?????
    I wish I knew . . . .
    never smoked – D&D free – had real good job , house , truck – strong & healthy – grandparents , uncle , aunts all lived to be 90 – 105
    .

  14. I do follow the norm of paying on the first date.
    That being said, It's sad that men are still expected to pay in the age of feminism. Trading anything for female attentions, to me, feels like prostitution in some form, regardless whether or not their is or isn't any sexual behavior or sex-related activity. If this is the absolute truth then, poor = lonely. Women say they want equal treatment but when it comes time to BE equals, they come up with some excuse like, "him paying shows me that he's interested. Not paying sends a signal that he's not." When that has nothing to do with reality. The reality is women EXPECT men to pay, no matter how progressive their views, or how much they lie to themselves and others. It's sexist for women to expect men to pay, just because the man invited the woman out. Tell me why women shouldn't pay for their own meal? First daters are strangers to each other, but because of this unwritten rule, that men pay on the first date, men who don't pay, don't get a second look much less a second date. Make up your mind women, are we equal or not? if not, tell the truth and stop lying, to yourself and everyone else.

  15. I'll pay on the first date, but it's always something simple like coffee or ice cream. If a 2nd date happens and she doesn't step up and pay for something then a 3rd date ain't happening. By the 5th date she better have taken me out on a date and paid for everything. If she doesn't regularly split/pay with me, then the relationship won't continue. As a man I shouldn't have to take on what is essentially a 2nd car payment as a "dating fund". And trust me, if you are dating a woman and paying for everything it will add up to a $300-400 per month bill. Hell, $400? That's like 6 dinner dates in one month – and many women expect to be taken out for dinner more often than that. I ain't having it. I'd rather be single.

  16. The problem is that men don't have any self value. If this is the first date you shouldn't be taking her out to expensive restaurants. Get to know her, go out to a coffee shop, but don't pay for her time. Many men spend money on woman because subconsciously they believe they have nothing to offer.

  17. If men just avoid "dating" and focus on themselves and acquire massive amounts of resources, men wouldn't have to ask or even pay for a date. Women give it up all the time to men with resources, example: rock stars, celebrities, men with money, power, high utility value etc. Besides, women wanted equality, give it to them and let them pay their half.

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